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		<title>New Blog &#8211; &#8216;A Critical Odyssey&#8217;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[For now, I&#8217;ve stopped updating this blog. However, I have begun a new blog with a different &#8216;mission&#8217;. The central ideas of the blog are: 1) Most humans naturally think egocentrically, and by this I mean we attempt to validate our own beliefs and we try to satisfy our selfish interests at the expense of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=31&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For now, I&#8217;ve stopped updating this blog. However, I have begun a new blog with a different &#8216;mission&#8217;.</p>
<p>The central ideas of the blog are:</p>
<p>1) Most humans naturally think egocentrically, and by this I mean we attempt to validate our own beliefs and we try to satisfy our selfish interests at the expense of others.</p>
<p>2) Most humans have the potential to think rationally, which is to develop one&#8217;s rational capacities and live a life respecting the interests of others.</p>
<p>You can find it here: <a href="http://acriticalodyssey.blogspot.com/">http://acriticalodyssey.blogspot.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Week 18: Habits</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 14:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here’s the usual summary of the last week or so: ·         I gave blood. ·         I registered to be on the Bone Marrow donor list. ·         Shared smoothies with friends on hot sunny days on the College lawn. ·         Decided to set up Oxford’s first Smile Society. [Still in planning stages – more information soon.] [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=30&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Here’s the usual summary of the last week or so:</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I gave blood.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I registered to be on the Bone Marrow donor list.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Shared smoothies with friends on hot sunny days on the College lawn.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 10pt 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Decided to set up Oxford’s first Smile Society. [Still in planning stages – more information soon.]</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I read a rather good, thought provoking article about habits (which can be read here: </span><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/business/04unbox.html?_r=1&amp;adxnnl=1&amp;adxnnlx=1210598331-mc9/EvwrKWkYhK47Vyc+3g&amp;oref=slogin"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/business/04unbox.html?_r=1&amp;adxnnl=1&amp;adxnnlx=1210598331-mc9/EvwrKWkYhK47Vyc+3g&amp;oref=slogin</span></a><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">). Essentially if I want to change my behaviour I’m best off creating new habits than changing old ones. In other words, I’m better off creating habits of being kind than trying to change a habit of being mean. Makes sense.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">And as a special treat here’s a fabulous poem, The Pig by Road Dahl: </span><a href="http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-pig/"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-pig/</span></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;"><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:115%;">Habits</span></strong><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:115%;"> of thinking need not be forever. One of the most significant findings in psychology in the last twenty years is that individuals can choose the way they think. <em>&#8211;Martin Seligman</em></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:115%;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Emotions are not happening to you; they are <strong>habits</strong> of interpretation of experience. <em>&#8211;Doug Powers</em></span></span></p>
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		<title>Week 16: smile, smcle, sycle, cycle!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2008 19:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here’s my ‘smile summary’ for this week: ·         I helped out a friend by designing a ticket for a Musical. ·         I cycled 75 miles to attend my auntie’s 40th birthday. ·         I started a habit of taking responsibility, and making the effort to make up when I’ve upset someone. When I was cycling, however, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=29&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Here’s my ‘smile summary’ for this week:</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I helped out a friend by designing a ticket for a Musical.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I cycled 75 miles to attend my auntie’s 40<sup>th</sup> birthday.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 10pt 36pt;"><span style="font-family:Symbol;"><span><span style="font-size:small;">·</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;">         </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I started a habit of taking responsibility, and making the effort to make up when I’ve upset someone.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">When I was cycling, however, a thought struck me: life is not a set of destinations but is something that is happening ‘now’. Allow me to illustrate my point; while I was cycling I was focusing on the goal of arriving at my auntie’s house at the expense of enjoying and appreciating the present ‘now’. This could be applied to everything, the destination is not to finish x, get to y or achieve z because there is no destination.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Here are some lovely quotes related to this:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;"><span style="color:#333300;">‘</span>One’s <strong>destination</strong> is never a place, but a new way of seeing things’. <em>&#8211;Henry Miller</em></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">‘Life is a journey. We are passengers in a train called life, and we are alive in the moment called now. The journey of life is so beautiful that it needs no <strong>destination</strong>. On this journey, we have been given a compass. The compass is the thirst to be fulfilled. The true journey of life begins the day we begin to seek to quench our thirst. This quest is the most noble one’.<em>&#8211;Prem Rawat</em></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Peace,</span></span></p>
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		<title>Week 15: The Relaunch</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 23:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After a 7 week of blogging absence I’m very happy to announce that I’m back! I have completed the London Marathon in an awesome 3 hours 55 minutes and 46 seconds (my BIG SMILE thing) with a stitched up head and sprained ankle. [Which was nothing compared to one man running with his leg in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=27&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center;margin:0 0 10pt;" align="center"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;"><a href="http://asmileeveryday.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/london-marathon-08-finish.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-28" src="http://asmileeveryday.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/london-marathon-08-finish.jpg?w=198&#038;h=210" alt="Me -knackered at the end, posing for my \'trophy\' picture." width="198" height="210" /></a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center;margin:0 0 10pt;" align="center"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">After a 7 week of blogging absence I’m very happy to announce that I’m back!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I have completed the London Marathon in an awesome 3 hours 55 minutes and 46 seconds (my BIG SMILE thing) with a stitched up head and sprained ankle. [Which was nothing compared to one man running with his leg in plaster and two crutches...!] The support was unbelievably good.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">It means though I can no longer justify being mean, cold and evil&#8230; so it’s back to being kind again!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">First of all I would like to say a massive thank you to all those who sponsored me to run this. I have raised over £1,500 so far for Shelter!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">It was my birthday recently and I asked my friends to doing something kind to someone else as a birthday present. Here is some of what they did:</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Gave out compliments during the day.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Gave a friend the best taking cake in Berlin.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Made a regular commitment to Water Aid and smiled at everybody.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Broke into the post office and left the village postmaster’s birthday card and present.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">My little cousin gave a rolo to his mum.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 10pt 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Paid for a friend’s meal and bought some flowers for their mum.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;"> <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />  From now on I will attempt to do something kind to others on a friend’s birthday and dedicate it to them.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">It has been an interesting 7 weeks – for although I have not been writing this blog I have still been doing kind things. And one thing I’ve noticed is that I’m doing more kind things than I was doing before I made this New Year’s resolution and it comes to me more naturally than it did before. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Looking back on the pledges I made over the last few months, however, there has been one which I haven’t done which is to change my diet to be a vegan. I have made some changes in my diet but not many.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I’m going to change the structure of the blog and now doing one weekly entry rather than splitting it up into days. This is because I’m abandoning the 1 smile a day rule to as many smiles a day. I do not want to save smile ideas when I could do them now simply so I have something to say in my blog for a particular day. I think that’s daft. Of course some days I won’t do anything but I will attempt to do as much as I can every day. This would make this project more natural and spontaneous. Moreover, there are some smile a day actions I don’t want to mention either because they are anonymous, it makes this blog repetitive, or they are small acts. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">Here’s my summary for this week:</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I downloaded some software from </span><a href="http://www.worldcommunitygrid.org/"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">http://www.worldcommunitygrid.org/</span></a><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">. Now my computer runs research on developing climate models, drugs to combat diseases like hepatitis C and a cure for Muscular Dystrophy when I’m not using it. How cool is that?</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I’m trying to do something about the number of plastic bags I use and instead remember to take my bag with me when I go shopping.</span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 10pt 36pt;"><span><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">-</span><span style="font:7pt;">          </span></span></span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">I registered with Amnesty and did one of their online actions.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">That’s all folks! </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">(A smile a day keeps the devil away. Or something like that.)</span></p>
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		<title>London Marathon</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 14:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Week 6: Cottleston, Cottleston, Cottleston Pie</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[  Day 34: Letter  I read a book called ‘A Defense of Globalization’ by an economist called Jagdish Bhagwati, which is, quite understandably, not everybody’s idea of bedtime reading. It was, however, I must say an excellent book, and it has helped developed my views on certain economic issues.  Perhaps unfortunately, wanting to do the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=24&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em>Day 34: Letter</em></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I read a book called ‘A Defense of Globalization’ by an economist called Jagdish Bhagwati, which is, quite understandably, not everybody’s idea of bedtime reading. It was, however, I must say an excellent book, and it has helped developed my views on certain economic issues.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Perhaps unfortunately, wanting to do the right thing and act morally is not enough. Sometimes the cure is worse than the illness. Hence, for many issues you need to think about the actual impacts of what you do and for some issues (like Fairtrade) the answers may be rather surprising. This is something I’d like to explore more.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I wrote the author a letter (although I actually haven’t sent it yet), but I won’t bore you with the details…</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em>Day 35: Book on a park bench</em></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">If you asked me to describe an image that would capture the phrase ‘naff ways to try and make people smile’ I would say leaving random books on park benches.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Guess what? That’s what I did…</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em>Day 36: Day of appreciation</em></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">We have World Peace Day, World Animal Day and even a World Jump Day (apparently just over 600,000,000 jumpers in 2006 failed to cause any permanent changes to the earths orbit &#8211; damn!- but managed to temporary drop the planets temperature by 0.09 degrees; well there you have it: the fun, if short lived, way to solve global warming&#8230;). So why not have a Day of Appreciation?</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">So I spread some appreciation during the day to friends, to life, to myself, to anything I felt like appreciating.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><b><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Appreciation</span></b><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> is like looking through a wide-angle lens that lets you see the entire forest, not just the one tree limb you walked up on.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i>&#8211;Doc Childre and Sara Paddison, HeartMath Discovery Program</i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 37: Hugs</span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I like hugs, other people like hugs. And almost like a mathematical equation it followed that hugging people would be a good thing to do.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">If you are feeling competitive (which I hope you aren’t, the peaceful, cooperative spirit and all that), try and beat my longest hug time: roughly one hour and a bit.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">A <b>hug</b> is like a boomerang &#8212; you get it back right away. <i>&#8211;Bil Keane</i></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 38: The Return of Anonymous Kindness</span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">You’ll have to do with the (rather well done) ‘Three Pumpkins’ photo above.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 39: Oxford Night Shelter Scheme</span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">This is a rather interesting one for me. It follows from two earlier posts – one post was about homelessness and the other was about making sure the cure is better than the illness. </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Homelessness is a tricky issue for me – for homeless people on the whole have some relatively big needs, but whether giving them money or not makes things better is a moot point for me (think drugs, lack of independence etc). </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">While it’s all circumstantial, of course, I’ve come across the Oxford Night Shelter Scheme on the internet (quite ironically via an anti-tramp face book group that I stumbled across). They sell voucher pads to people in Oxford who can give them out to homeless people who ask for help (which happens a lot), and it entitles them to spend a night at the shelter &#8211; food, shower etc. The shelter, however, focuses on resolving their issues and problems, which is the main thing I want to see happen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em>Day 40: The Hint</em></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Today was another of those boring days for you (anonymous kindness), so instead I&#8217;m going to give you a tantilising hint that something big in the world of &#8216;Asmileeveryday&#8217; is about to happen. Ooops there I have just given you the hint.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Do I now have a mass army of loyal henchmen spreading the lurve that I no longer need to do anything more? Are there plans for a BIG SMILE? I shall say no more.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:Arial;">Just by being what you are, <b>other people</b> will change &#8230; but you don&#8217;t do it because you want to change them. You do it to make your heart free. <i>&#8211;Don Miguel Ruiz</i></span></span></p>
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		<title>Week 5: Link your hands together, a circle we&#8217;ll make</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[  Day 27: A write off  Simple, easy and unusual. Today I wrote messages and pictures on the banknotes in my wallet. I wonder if anybody will notice them?  The real measure of your wealth is how much you&#8217;d be worth if you lost all your money. &#8211;Anonymous  Day 28: Microfinance  I came across an [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=18&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 27: A write off</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Simple, easy and unusual. Today I wrote messages and pictures on the banknotes in my wallet. I wonder if anybody will notice them?</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">The real measure of your wealth is how much you&#8217;d be worth if you lost all your <span>money</span>. <span>&#8211;Anonymous</span></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 28: Microfinance</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I came across an interesting organisation called Kiva: <a href="http://www.kiva.org/about"><font color="#800080">http://www.kiva.org/about</font></a>. What it does is it enables people to be m</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">icro financiers and give loans directly to small businesses in the developing world. So I made a loan to a barber from Azerbaijan. Apparently I will get email updates from the guy about how he is doing.<span></span></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">&#8220;Treat the earth well: it was not given to you by your parents, it was <span>loan</span>ed to you by your children. We do not inherit the Earth from our Ancestors, we borrow it from our Children.&#8221; <span>&#8211;Ancient Indian Proverb</span></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 29: Planet Earth</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I lent my brother’s Planet Earth DVDs (don’t worry you’ll get them back!) to a French friend. Being French he’s missed out till now on one of the most amazing, to date, nature documentaries ever filmed. The world is truly a wonderful and amazing place.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">T</span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">here is hope if people will begin to awaken that spiritual part of themselves, that heartfelt knowledge that we are caretakers of this <span>planet</span>. <span>&#8211;Brooke Medicine Eagle</span></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 30: Oxford Smiles</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Given that I did an anonymous act of kindness instead of telling you what I did today I have a challenge for you. Can you work out where in Oxford these smiles are (see the two pictures above)? First correct answer wins a prize.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Just by being what you are, <span>other people</span> will change &#8230; but you don&#8217;t do it because you want to change them. You do it to make your heart free. <span>&#8211;Don Miguel Ruiz</span></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 31: A joke</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Damn, another act of anonymous kindness. You’ll have to do with a joke instead:</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<h3><span style="font-size:14pt;color:windowtext;font-family:Arial;">All Tickets Please!</span><span style="font-size:14pt;color:windowtext;font-family:Arial;"></span></h3>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">It&#8217;s the third week in January, three engineers and three accountants are travelling by train to a conference in Brighton. At the station, the three accountants each buy tickets and watch as the three engineers buy only a single ticket.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">&#8216;How are three people going to travel on only one ticket?&#8217; asks an accountant. &#8216;Watch and you&#8217;ll see&#8217;, answers an engineer.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">They all board the train. The accountants take their respective seats but all three engineers cram into a toilet and close the door behind them. Shortly after the train has departed, the conductor comes around collecting tickets. He knocks on the toilet door and says, &#8216;All tickets please.&#8217; </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">The door opens just a crack and a single arm emerges with a ticket in hand. The conductor takes it and moves on.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">The accountants saw this and agreed it was quite a clever idea. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">So after the conference, the accountants decide to copy the engineers on the return trip and save some money.  When they get to the station, they buy a single ticket for the return trip. To their astonishment, the engineers don&#8217;t buy a ticket at all.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">&#8216;How are you going to travel without a ticket?&#8217; says one perplexed accountant.&#8217; Watch and you&#8217;ll see, &#8216;answers an engineer.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">When they board the train the three accountants cram into a toilet and the three engineers cram into another one nearby.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">The train departs.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Shortly afterward, one of the engineers leaves his toilet and walks over to the toilet where the accountants are hiding. He knocks on the door and says, &#8216;All tickets please.&#8217;</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 32: A joke 2</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Another joke…</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Little Leroy went to his mother demanding a new bicycle. His mother decided that he should take a look at himself and the way he acts. She said, &#8220;Well Leroy, it isn&#8217;t Christmas and we don&#8217;t have the money to just go out and buy you anything you want. So why don&#8217;t you write a letter to Jesus and pray for one instead.&#8221; After his temper tantrum his mother sent him to his room. He finally sat down to write a letter to Jesus.</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Dear Jesus,</span></em><i><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;ve been a good boy this year and would appreciate a new bicycle.</span></em></i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></em></i><i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Your Friend,</span></em><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Leroy</span></em></i></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i> </i></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i>Now, Leroy knew that Jesus really knew what kind of boy he was, so he ripped up the letter and decided to give it another try.</p>
<p></i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Dear Jesus,</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></em></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;ve been an OK boy this year and I want a new bicycle.</span></em><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Your Truly,</span></em><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Leroy</span></em><br />
</span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><br />
Well, Leroy knew this wasn&#8217;t totally honest, so he tore it up and tried again.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Dear Jesus,</span></em><i><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;ve thought about being a good boy this year and can I have a bicycle?</span></em></i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></em></i><i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Leroy</span></em></i></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i> </i></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i>Well, Leroy looked deep down in his heart, which by the way was what his mother really wanted. He knew he had been terrible and was deserving of almost nothing. He crumpled up the letter, threw it in the trash can and went running outside.</p>
<p>He aimlessly wandered about depressed because of the way he treated his parents and really considered his actions. He finally found himself in front of a Catholic Church. Leroy went inside and knelt down, looking around not knowing what he should really do. Leroy finally got up and began to walk out the door, looking at all the statues. All of a sudden he grabbed a small one and ran out the door. He went home, hid it under his bed and wrote this letter.</p>
<p><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Jesus,</span></em></p>
<p></i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></em><i><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">I&#8217;ve got your mama. If you ever want to see her again, give me a bike!</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></em><i><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Sincerely,</span></em><br />
<em><span style="font-family:Arial;">You know who</span></em><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 33: Flowers</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> </span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I’ve been growing some rather beautiful daffodils in my room for a few days now. Today I gave them to people – friends, on park benches that sort of thing. Why not I thought<em>. <span> </span></em></span></p>
<p><span><em>Learn from the lowliest in the earth, in the birds, in the trees, in the grass, in the <span>flowers</span>, in the bees &#8212; likewise listen to the birds, watch the blush of the rose, listen to the life rising in the tree. <span>&#8211;Edgar Cayce</span></em></span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Day 20: Smile texts Continuing the idea of sending messages I would like to receive myself, I decided to send a text message to 5 random people. (I ran out of credit though after 4 people…) Random reaching out – I like that. Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=15&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 20: Smile texts</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Continuing the idea of sending messages I would like to receive myself, I decided to send a text message to 5 random people. (I ran out of credit though after 4 people…)</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></strong><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Random reaching out – I like that.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></strong><strong><i><span style="font-weight:normal;font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Communication</span></i></strong><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"> leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing. <span>&#8211;Rollo May</span></span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span></span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 21: Friendship</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">This was more a spontaneous action than pre-planned. In essence, I made a new friend with somebody with similar interests to me – and interestingly enough it was somebody who I had given a pen at a lecture quite a few weeks ago. It seems that kindness opens new doors…</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Each <span>friend</span> represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. <span>&#8211;Anais Nin</span></span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span></span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 22: Birthday Surprise</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">It was my grandmother’s birthday and I thought I’d do something unusual. So I sent her an orchid via interflora. (It was a happy coincidence that the cheapest set of flowers, I’m a student…, also happened to be one of my grandmother’s favourites – not that I knew that then.) </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Thinking long-term, however, I can a potential problem: people may expect surprises from me, which makes them hardly surprising. I’ll have to think about that one!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Life is a celebration of awakenings, of new beginnings, and wonderful <span>surprise</span>s that enlighten the soul. <span>&#8211;Cielo</span></span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span></span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 23: Allen Carr’s Easyway to stop smoking.</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I have a mate who’s trying to stop smoking (good for him). He tried initially through sheer willpower and was unsuccessful. So I got him a book called </span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Allen Carr’s Easyway to stop smoking</span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">. I’ve read some of it – and it’s fantastic. It’s </span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">based on developing understanding the physical and psychological mechanisms of addiction, and is pretty much applicable to all kinds of addiction. I hope it’ll help my friend to quit smoking (if I’m talking about you have you read it yet?). </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">And quite interestingly his approach fits quite neatly with my personal philosophy: that self-understanding gives us the answers of life, and underpins any real transformation of ourselves.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">If we can really <span>understand</span> the problem, the answer will come out of it, because the answer is not separate from the problem. <span>&#8211;Jiddu Krishnamurti</span></span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span></span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 24: The homeless</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Where I am living at the moment there are a lot of homeless people around. I find that tough – both because of the gross disparity in wealth and opportunities between ‘them’ and ‘us’ (a false dichotomy I think), and also because you can that most people ignore the homeless and I find it difficult not to do the same. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">So I stopped and chatted with one and helped him out. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and <span>homeless</span>. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty. <span>&#8211;Mother Teresa</span></span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><span></span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 25: The ripple on effect</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">I didn’t do anything today. I had a plan but it didn’t work out. Instead I’ll just like to state something I observed: I saw the result of an act of kindness which was strikingly similar to something that I did a week back. (I don’t know who did it and nor do I want to.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Perhaps my own action was the spark for it, but then again perhaps not. If it is it suggests that there is “<i>no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a <span>ripple</span> with no logical end.” <span>&#8211;Scott Adams</span></i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"><i><span></span></i></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Day 26: <i>Happy in an Oven</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">A</span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">t the top of this page is the latest instalment of ‘Happy in Oxford’: ‘Happy in an Oven’. A strange guy&#8230;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">Just to give a tantalising hint at what I did today here’s a quote. </span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;">At the height of <span>laugh</span>ter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities. <span>&#8211;Jean Houston</span></span></i><i><span style="font-size:14pt;font-family:Arial;"></span></i></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Day 13: What to do? This is the first day where I’m not sure what to write. Not because I didn’t do something, but because I did an anonymous act of kindness to somebody who may read this blog! If I give the details of what I did then if the recipient reads the blog [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=12&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">This is the first day where I’m not sure what to write. Not because I didn’t do something, but because I did an anonymous act of kindness to somebody who may read this blog!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">If I give the details of what I did then if the recipient reads the blog they will know who was behind it; and to make matters worse merely mentioning the fact that I did an anonymous act of kindness to somebody who may read my blog may be enough information for the recipient in question to work out it was me who did it&#8230;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">My, that was a bit of a mouthful.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So the dilemma is this: what is more important, anonymity or having a blog update for today?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Which brings me to the reasons behind my blog: firstly, as I’ve committed myself to writing about my efforts it is my daily ‘kick up the bum’; secondly; it is an helpful way to process and think about what I’ve done; and thirdly, I hope it inspires, motivates and challenges you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I</span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"> am quite conscious, however, of the impact the blog has on people’s perceptions of me. And I really don’t want to be trapped in caring about what other people think of me; I want the freedom of doing things because I want to do them – not because I think it will make people think I’m a good, funny, interesting or amazing person.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">And what I want to do is to not to say anything; henceforth, any time I don’t want to say what I did I will write a joke or put a picture up instead.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">&#8220;You can make more friends in two months by becoming more interested in <b>other people</b> than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you.&#8221; <i>&#8211;Dale Carnegie</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">We cling to our own point of view, as though everything depended on it. Yet our <b>opinion</b>s have no permanence; like autumn and winter, they gradually pass away. <i>&#8211;Chuang Tzu</i></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></p>
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<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 14: Coca Cola-less</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">This was an unusual idea. I decided to simplify my life by not drinking coca cola for a week, and giving the money I would have otherwise spent to charity.</span></p>
<p style="margin:0 0 10pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">This wasn’t because I thought coca cola is inherently bad (of course it isn’t – or is it&#8230;?), or that we do some good via asceticism, and then giving the money away. Rather this was about simplifying life – an experiment with removing unnecessary things from the everyday course of life. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I suspect that a simplification of life makes the person who simplifies more happy – when they examine and let go of their attachments to the frivolous.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">And what is the way to determine the truth of this? Experiment!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Voluntary <b>simplicity</b> means going fewer places in one day rather than more, seeing less so I can see more, doing less so I can do more, acquiring less so I can have more. <i>&#8211;Jon Kabat-Zinn</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 15: Leaving the world in a better place </span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">There is a common adage that goes like this: clear up your own mess. But why leave it there? Some people can’t clear up their own mess, others won’t. Slandering such people won’t change anything – taking action will.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So today whereever I went somewhere I made an effort to both clear up after myself and make the place a little better for the next person.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">And why not – what do you lose? It’s everybody’s mess. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Of all those people who went before to prepare the way for us, most of those people will not ask us to pay them back. But what they do ask of us is to pay it forward -– that we make this world a <b>better</b> place for those who come after us in just the way that they made this a <b>better</b> place for us. <i>&#8211;Naomi Tutu</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 16: The internet</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Today’s action was a continuation of the theme of simplicity. I decided to use my computer and the internet less – it’s very easy to spend lots of time on it. This action alone, of course, wouldn’t make any smile (except perhaps myself, but I’m not sure if I count&#8230;), so I set the search engine everyclick (<a href="http://www.everyclick.com/?locale=world">http://www.everyclick.com/?locale=world</a>) as my home page and registered with it (<a href="http://charities.everyclick.com/fundraisers">http://charities.everyclick.com/fundraisers</a>). </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Do you know of those charity websites, where you click on a button and adverts appear, raising money for the charity? This search engine is based on a similar principle (being a social enterprise and giving 50% of its advertising revenue to charity), except there’s no drawback for the searchers (i.e. you don’t spend time doing an utterly pointless thing). All it takes is to register, and make it your primary search engine and from then on you are generating money for your favourite charity. And just by doing what you normally do! </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">What a wonderful idea – why don’t you register?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><b><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Simplicity</span></b><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"> is central to engaging the aliveness of the universe, because it helps to clear away the distractions that separate us from direct connection with life. <i>&#8211;Duane Elgin</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 17: K.E.E.N. to smile</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I went ice skating today with K.E.E.N. (kids enjoying exercise now), and I looked after a kid who </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><span>a)<span style="font:7pt 'Times New Roman';">   </span></span></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">couldn’t skate</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><span>b)<span style="font:7pt 'Times New Roman';">   </span></span></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">wanted to go as fast as possible</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So of course the inevitable happened&#8230;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The kids who come to K.E.E.N. are either physically or mentally disabled. The challenge is to see beyond their disabilities and see them for what they really are. I’m told that most people have disabilities (although most of which would be fairly minor) – something which I suspect is probably true. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">This raises the question: what is a ‘normal’ human being?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Perhaps there is no such thing? And after all who wants to be ‘normal’, if they can be extraordinary? Let’s celebrate diversity and accept ourselves for who we are.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">‘Only by accepting ourselves fully for who we are, can we begin to change.’—<i>err &#8230; me.</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 18: Friendship</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Friends are integral part of who we are. So I thought it would be a jolly good thing to show my appreciation to my distant friends by writing letters to them. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">And so I did. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Let us cherish our friends – they mean a lot to us, so why not tell them that?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Appreciate your <b>friends</b>. Continue to learn. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is. <i>&#8211;Mary Ann Radmacher</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you <b>friends</b>hip. I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you. Let us work together for unity and love. <i>&#8211;Gandhi&#8217;s Prayer For Peace</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 19: ‘Happy in Oxford’</span></i></p>
<p style="margin:0 0 10pt;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:14pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">You can see the first installment of ‘Happy in Oxford’ at the top of this page– it is called ‘Happy in a tree’. The photographer’s artistic inspiration for his feeble attempts is his sister – a true artist. Think of Happy (the green paint bottle) as a metaphor – if that helps.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Day 6: Selflessness I left home today to go back to university, and I thought I’d do something for my family before I left. So I set the bread machine on (with the ingredients in it of course–you’d be amazed how easy it is to mess this up), because my family love the home-made bread [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=asmileeveryday.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2536638&amp;post=6&amp;subd=asmileeveryday&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><a href="http://asmileeveryday.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/fun-pictures-009.jpg" title="fun-pictures-009.jpg"><img width="1425" src="http://asmileeveryday.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/fun-pictures-009.jpg?w=1425&#038;h=1390" alt="fun-pictures-009.jpg" height="1390" style="width:375px;height:307px;" /></a></span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 6: Selflessness</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></em><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I left home today to go back to university, and I thought I’d do something for my family before I left. So I set the bread machine on (with the ingredients in it of course–you’d be amazed how easy it is to mess this up), because my family love the home-made bread it makes. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Now I have made bread countless times before, but what made this time different was I wasn’t going to get any of the bread myself, as I wasn’t going to be around when it was ready. </span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">For me it’s about trying to see things from a wider perspective – in this case the needs and wishes of my own family. (Something, I must admit, they have been trying to make me see for a long time!) </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So why don’t you do something kind today that won’t immediately benefit yourself?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Real education should educate us out of self into something far finer; into a <b>selfles</b>sness which links us with all humanity. <i>&#8211;Nancy Witcher Astor</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Render <b>selfles</b>s service to the universe, not to any particular group of people but to anybody and everybody, to all living creatures &#8212; animals, plants or human beings. Service is unilateral, not mutual. Where it is mutual, it is not service &#8211; it is commercial transaction. <i>&#8211;Dharma Mahacahra</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><em><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 7: Day of Laughter</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></em><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Surely, ‘the most wasted of all days is one without <b>laughter’</b> <i>(E. E. Cummings)?</i> I thought that bringing some cheer to the world would be jolly good thing – so I made an extra effort to make people laugh, by telling jokes, stories or doing funny things. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Here’s a few links to get you going:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">A Monty Python classic (a must watch for all fellow philosophers – see if you think it’s making a profound point about classical philosophy):</span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ur5fGSBsfq8"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><font color="#3c6b9b">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ur5fGSBsfq8</font></span></a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">For some <b><u>hilarious</u></b> comic strips look no further than:</span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"><a href="http://pbfcomics.com/"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><font color="#3c6b9b">http://pbfcomics.com/</font></span></a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Make somebody laugh today.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">What soap is to the body, <b>laughter</b> is to the soul. <i>&#8211;Yiddish Proverb</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Laughter</span></b><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"> is the shortest distance between two people. <i>&#8211;Victor Borge</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-family:'Georgia','serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 8: Anonymous Giving</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">In some ways I’m spoiling the very spirit of today’s Smile Action by telling you what I did. I decided I wanted to do an anonymous act of kindness for somebody I didn’t know. So I wrote a letter that I would have liked to have received myself and put it in a public place (although it wasn’t too obvious so it may be a while before somebody picks it up). </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">With the letter I attached a Smile Card (see: </span><a href="http://www.helpothers.org/pics/cards/pif5_full.gif"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><font color="#3c6b9b">http://www.helpothers.org/pics/cards/pif5_full.gif</font></span></a><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">), which is about turning anonymous kindness into a game of ‘tag’. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">We are more inclined to do something kind for somebody we know rather than a stranger. But how much basis has this really got? If we strip away our desire for security and our egocentric judgements of people we are left with the fundamental fact that we are all human beings and we all want to be happy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Why don’t you order some smile cards (</span><a href="http://www.helpothers.org/cards.php"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><font color="#3c6b9b">http://www.helpothers.org/cards.php</font></span></a><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">) and begin a chain of anonymous kindness?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Giving <span>anon</span>ymously is as hard as taking film in and never seeing the photos. <i>&#8211;Dave Davidson</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 9: The Family</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The family is the nucleus of society. It is an important social network that provides support, love and empathy. So today I ‘extended’ my family, and visited my dad’s cousin, who I haven’t seen for a long time. </span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The scope of a family tends to be bigger in the developing world than in the Rich countries; ultimately though, we are part of one big global family – and the more support, love and empathy we pour into it the healthier it is.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Why don’t you extend your family today? Or heal an existing fracture?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The bond that links your true <b>family</b> is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other&#8217;s life. Rarely do members of one <b>family</b> grow up under the same roof. <i>&#8211;Richard Bach</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your <b>family</b>.<i>&#8211;Mother Teresa</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 10: Sharing</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">It’s not materialism per se that I have problem with- there is nothing wrong with having things. It’s the greed, the selfishness, the unhealthy desires and attachments, and the planetary, animal and human suffering that often accompanies it that is the real issue. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Sharing is an excellent antidote to all this.</span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">There are three types of sharing, or giving.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The beggarly: giving away what you don’t want or no longer have any need for.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The princely: giving away things that are fairly important to you. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The kingly: giving away your life possessions.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Today I gave a book away to a friend who I thought might find it interesting; and this is firmly in category one, the beggarly, but it is a start. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Why don’t you share something today, or give away something to somebody whose need is greater than your own? Why don’t you think about your attachment to your belongings and the basis for it?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">When we <b>share</b> &#8212; that is poetry in the prose of life. <i>&#8211;Sigmund Freud</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The miracle is this &#8211; the more we <b>share</b>, the more we have. <i>&#8211;Leonard Nimoy</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 11: Poster Power</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">No matter how well-intentioned we are – we all need reminders. A reminder that life is short and wonderful, to sing, dance and smile. Or as one Sufi poet put it to remember not to ‘open the door to the study and begin reading. Take down a musical instrument.’ (<i>Rumi).</i> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So I decided to create a poster to serve as a regular reminder for both me and my friends (although I haven’t put the copies up yet).</span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Our lives are one big sign to everybody else – why don’t we make our lives a reminder to others what life is all about? Let us consider to impact our actions has on other people. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Why don’t you create your own reminder of what is important to you?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don&#8217;t complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don&#8217;t bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. <b>Wake up</b> and live! <i>&#8211;Bob Marley</i></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Day 12: Holistic Peace</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span></i><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">We need people who support and work with us towards peace, love and kindness. I decided today to formally announce an idea I’ve had for a while for empowering myself and others: the creation of a holistic peace group to act as a forum for sharing ideas and experiences, for motivation and support, and encouraging exploration and open-mindedness with regards to overcoming our own spiritual and political delusions. </span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">A group that would ask questions like:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:Symbol;"><span>·    </span></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">How can we connect with what is alive within us? How do we develop inner peace? How can we become happy? How can we understand ourselves better, and become our own best friend? (Things that could be covered are non-violent communication, meditation, mindfulness, self-understanding and loving-kindness.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:Symbol;"><span>·<span style="font:7pt 'Times New Roman';">        </span></span></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">What is the World Order like? What are the impressions we get of it from mainstream media? Does that match up to reality?<span>  </span>If it is something that needs challenging, subverting or replacing then what can we do? (Things that could be covered are Chomsky’s Propaganda Model and lateral thinking.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">I quote from my explanation letter:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">‘Paradoxically, while I think these two areas cover some of the most fundamental matters of life –they are also issues that are little talked of. This is partly due to the fact that to do these topics justice you need humility, integrity, an ability to be critical, asking searching questions, and a genuine sense of openness. At the very least one needs to be willing to develop these traits.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">So in a sense the hardest step of holistic peace is the first one – to begin the journey of self-discovery, to search for the path of happiness, to be willing to try and understand and change the world. </span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Are you ready?’</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">If you are at university with me why don’t you join the group? If not why don’t you and your friends help each other to explore both inner and outer peace?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">The way is long ~ let us go together.<br />
The way is difficult ~ let us help each other.<br />
The way is joyful ~ let us <span>share</span> it.<br />
The way is ours alone ~ let us go in love.<br />
The way grows before us ~ let us begin.</span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"> </span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><i>&#8211;Zen Proverb</i></span><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;line-height:115%;font-family:'Arial','sans-serif';">Never doubt that a small <b>group</b> of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that has. <i>&#8211;Margaret Mead</i></span></p>
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